Sometimes in our relentless effort to find the person we love, we
fail to recognize and appreciate the people who love us. We miss out on
so many beautiful things simply because we allow ourselves to be
enslaved by our own selfish concerns.
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Go for the man of deeds and not for the man of words, for you will
find rewarding happiness, not with the man you love but with the man who
loves you more. The best lovers are those capable of loving from a
distance far enough to allow the person to grow but ever too far to feel
the love within your being. To let go of someone doesn’t mean you have
to stop loving, it only means that you allow that person to find his own
happiness without expecting him to come back. Letting go is not just
setting the other person free, but is also setting yourself free from
all the bitterness, hatred, and anger that you keep in your heart. Do
not let the bitterness take away your strength and weaken your faith,
and never allow pain to dishearten you; but rather let yourself grow
with wisdom in bearing it.
You may find peace in loving someone from a distance not expecting
something in return. But be careful, for this can sustain life but can
never give enough room for us to grow. We can all survive with just
beautiful memories of the past, but real peace and happiness come only
with open acceptance of what reality is today. There comes a time in our
lives when we chance upon someone so nice and beautiful and we just
find ourselves so intensely attracted to that person. This feeling soon
becomes a part of our everyday lives and eventually consumes our
thoughts and actions. The sad part of it is when we begin to realize
that this person feels nothing more for us than just a friendship.
We start our desperate attempt to get noticed and be closer, but in
the end our efforts are still unrewarded and we end up being sorry for
ourselves. You don’t have to forget someone you love. What you need to
learn is how to accept the verdict of reality without being bitter or
sorry for yourself. Believe me, you would be better off giving that
dedication and love to someone more deserving.
Don’t let your heart run your life, be sensible and let your mind
speak for itself. Listen not only to your feelings but to reason as
well. Always remember that if you lose someone today, it means that
someone better is coming tomorrow. If you lose love that doesn’t mean
you failed in love.
Cry if you have to, but make sure that tears wash away the hurt and
the bitterness that the past has left with you. Let go of yesterday and
love will find its way back to you. And when it does, pray that it may
be the love that will stay and last a lifetime.
There are two ways to live your life: One is as though nothing is a
miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle. There is no
mistake so painful that love cannot forgive. no past so bitter that love
cannot accept.
And no love so little that we cannot start all over with. ~ Love and Life by Albert Einstein ~
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